I know I haven't posted in a while, so I thought I would just post on things that have been going on. Things have been going great and the training seems to be paying off. I have my sub asking to get off when she feel like she has to. I was totally blown away the other day when we were just having some vanilla sex and didn't have that much time to get into the whole D/s act and when she was ready she asked with out even having to think about it she just said : may I cum please, Sir? I really need to cum, I was so proud to hear her say that. I usually have to remind her to ask before we get started and I figured that since this was vanilla, I didn't need to bring it up. I knew it would probably take a few times to get it down and be something we only do when we are D/s but i think she really needs permission now every time. She is such a good sub and I am proud of my good girl learning so fast.
We have also gotten more into the spanking and are trying new things that help. The other day I was caught up in it and i took off my belt and used that on her. Wow she really loved that, I want to get a flogger and a cane I think mixing all of them up would be really good. I have been getting caught up in it and feel more turned on the more I spank her, the only hard thing is my sub really doesn't misbehave and I have hard time finding things to punish her for. I love turning her ass red and wish I could do it more and leave some marks that would stay for a while to remind her of the punishment and the love that we have for each other every time she feels them.
I have also found that conversation is really good and helps make the D/s sex better. Like I said before this is all new to me and I am learning. The talking it out with my sub is really helpful and I learn what she likes and makes her turned on, and she helps me become a better Dom for her and myself. I have learned that I love to spank more than I used to, and am getting it down to feel more like punishment and and make her feel like she needs it when I do it, I now know what she is looking for and how she wants to be treated, but the one thing I think I learned is the power it gives you and I found that I love making her ask/beg for things that she didn't know she wanted or that I wanted. My favorite thing is to make my sub to ask for me to cum inside her. I don't know why but that just sends me over the edge. I guess it has to do with the fact that not only do I want to cum in her but she wants/needs me to do it also.
Now to move forward and get her to want/ need me to cum in her mouth. She has these fears and as a Dom I feel the need to ease her of them. I guess I am breaking her one step at a time and eventually she will thank me for doing it. Now you are caught up and will post more soon I promise. Thank you for reading and have a great weekend.
